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12/31/2013

Welcoming the new year!


RUN RUN RUN in the morning! 10km in 50 minutes. I really wasn't too happy with my performance today, but it was certainly a nice day to join a run! 

NOW! Getting ready to party and welcome the new year! 

Have a good one! 
Hugs and thank you for following!
See you next year! °°°
Taty*

12/22/2013

Christmas Fever ...


Its the time of the year to shop around those stores that you usually don't go into. To walk a different path or to simply stay in bed all day reading the books that have been getting dusty on your night stand. I pretty much did the same this weekend (after getting all other things out of the way like for example organizing my paperwork, reviewing my insurances and and and… Its always good to start a new year as organized as possible). My lovely friend Elisa from Bamberg came over for the weekend and we did all the girly things that are out there! 

Opening my new glossy box! It is always nice to get a nice surprise each month. It was the first time that I tried it and luckily I liked everything that was included in this beauty surprise box! Especially the dark red nail polish made me happy :)

After baking for my dog, it was time to prepare for christmas. Spreading the love with neighbors will definitely work with all those hearts :)

AND look what I received at work! InTouch Magazine thought it would be nice to pimp our living rooms and to send us some pretty funny christmas balls! 
Last night we curled up in bed after a long day of strolling around Düsseldorf, going for a run and making a delicious Quiche! Heart of Dixie, one TV show like Grey's Anatomy and "Alles was zählt" gave us enough fake gossip material for a week :)











11/24/2013

Exploring Düsseldorf with Friends...

Here are only some impressions. More info to follow! It was a very intellectual and fun weekend though! Filled with spontaneous adventures!(in regards to trying new places)




9/18/2013

Dear Future I am Ready: Matt

Matt - The Bayern Munich fan at heart who wants to conquer Germany
(I felt like my first male contributor shouldn't have to deal with the pink color :))
Education: Bachelors of Arts in Political Science from Clemson University Nationality: American Age: 23 Previous International Experience: One month living with a family in Straubing, Germany when I was 16, and studying abroad for one year at Otto-Friedrich Universität Bamberg, in Bamberg, Germany. Challenge: Figuring out what I want to do with my life and how to incorporate my dreams of living abroad into that. Result: It’s still an ongoing process. I think what everyone finds themselves drawn to changes as we get older, so I think that the result is a bit subjective. I do think that I’m on my way. Hobbies: Roller skating and video games
It all started in high school...
I’m Matt, 23 and American. One of my dreams has been to live in Germany. This all started when I did an exchange program in high school for a month. It taught me a lot about the world, instilled in me a love for all things German, and made me realize that the world was composed of a lot more than I had learned in my short shelter existence 
And I am back! Bamberg is calling!
Because of this experience, I decided to do a year abroad in Bamberg, Germany during my third year of study. This year was, without a doubt, the most exciting and memorable year of life so far. I believe that for me, it was not only an adventure, but also probably the time in my life where I have really learned the most about myself.
What's the plan now?
As far as what I want to do with my life, I’m honestly still not sure. I think for me, my dream of wanting to move, live and work in Germany really stems from a mixture of two things. One, you would probably call Wanderlust. Where I grew up, it’s early hard for the people here to get out, not just from the location but the small minded mentality and the ease of life here. I want to explore and broaden my knowledge and understanding of the world. The other part is a mix of my love of German culture and how at home I felt in Germany in the year I spent there.
Making my dream come true, one step at a time...
What I’m doing to make my goals become reality so far is I have gotten a job in the US working for a German firm, ZF. I think this is a great step towards what I want to do, as I have gained invaluable experience and really get a feel for the German way of ‘worklife’. Besides that I have a couple of other ideas that I’m throwing around in my head. I originally studied political science, and while I don’t like politics, I love debating and talking about the theories behind them. I have found a program at the Universität Bayreuth in Philosophy and Economics that I would absolutely love to get my Masters. Another idea I am really drawn too is to try to get a job teaching English as a second language somewhere in world. 
Thank you past for the lessons. Dear future I am ready...
For me, I think the biggest challenge is well, finding something that I like to do that also quenches my Wanderlust. I’m not sure what exactly the future holds for me, but I enjoy waking up knowing everyday that I can go out and have an adventure.
Note from Taty :) Thank you for showing my friend and me your university this past summer! I can only say that Germany would love to have you back! (oh and yes, that is me in the pictures: Halloween is coming up... :) )

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9/15/2013

Dear Future I am Ready: Uli


Ulrike - a women that cherishes the little things and keeps looking at advancing herself
Education: High school and a tremendous amount of "real life" lessons learned
Nationality: German
Age: 23
Previous International Experience: Three years as an Au-Pair in the USA. Moved around with her family (host family which became her second real one) and made the American dream come true
Challenge: It was time to move on. To do something different. To think long term. But what to study and where? How to get over the great time that she had?
Result: Uli is back in Germany and although she is still seeing and experiencing the cultural differences she will now start her studies in American/British studies combined with Management classes. The next challenge is arising though :) Getting settles in a completely new city with a new objective and new goals
Hobbies: Basketball, Music and Dancing

Inevitable change
Well, hallo people out there. Isn't it incredible how life changes with the years and some changes are huge like different countries, some changes are small like trying a new drink at Starbucks and some tiny changes we don't even realize because our world/life became so hectic. I'm standing in front of a new chapter in my life, the chapter is called - going to university! Isn't it hard enough to let go of the past and the old habits, now I have to adjust to new things, new ways of life and the hardest part for me, to decide what do I want do for the rest of my life. Of course every new step in life brings you further and keeps you moving - and I guess that's what it is all about.

Let me introduce myself
By the way I'm Ulrike and 23 years young, after almost 3 years living in the United States I'm back in Germany and in October I start school at the Johannes Gutenberg Universität Mainz. Like I said, this big change coming back to my home country from the U.S. was tough for me or let's say it's still tough but it's getting easier day by day. I just miss the little things like going shopping on a Sunday, the friendly and open way random people smile at you, the good service of the Americans and of course I miss my three little kiddos I took care of, for so long.
Moving on, tackling the next challenge
Letting go of the past is important though. I mean you take all the great memories with you and some you will never forget but you need to make new memories and that is as important as looking back on amazing times you had. The scariest part in my life right now is to get settled in a new city, find new friends and accomplish great work in school. But now when I think about it, it's not that frightened anymore because I have done this before and I feel like "hell yea I can do this again!" One other aspect I'm telling myself, is that all the other freshman's in school must feel the same way, they are new and so am I.

Beginning of something new and uncertain
It's a new challenge and I've learned that new beginnings in life can be tough, really tough, so tough that you think about quitting but you got to fight through the hard times and I'll promise better times will come and at the end everything will pay off.
Plans, plans, plans
My plans for the future are to get my degree in American/British Studies plus Management, to enjoy my time as a student, to stay focused when my laziness is fighting against deadlines, to meet more great and inspiring people like Taty, to get an scholarship for a semester abroad, to laugh more, to appreciate more what I have, to help more other people, to realize the great little moments in life, to try my best whatever it is I do. We all are looking for happiness in life, for the one it's a lot of money or the nice things that come with money, for the other one it's to be around with family and friends but at the end it doesn't matter what it is for the other people, you got to find what makes you happy and live your life the way you want it to be!

Goodbye and Inspiration
Thank you guys for reading my little story - here my favorite quote that always helps me out:

Thank you Uli! Can't wait to enjoy another wine with you in the US! :) You go girl! And I am sure that we can expect a second entry from you on this blog :)

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9/06/2013

Dear Future I am Ready: Henriette

Henni - A girl that is ready for her next steps and some adventurous travel prior to starting her studies


Education: Currently in High School pursuing her A-level (Graduation in 2014°°)
Age: 17 Previous Experience on the job: Internship in surgery department, ability to make the most delicious pizza in Bamberg (or potentially the WORLD) :), diverse office jobs Dream Vacation: Travelling the world with a backpack, tent and my closest friends Challenge: To motivate myself and to become clear about what I want
Result: Made the decision to enjoy life a little after university to broaden my horizon prior to my studies. I am too eager to travel and to fall in love with another city like Paris :) However, I will certainly continue to figure out if medicine is really what I want to study.

My mind is spinning... 
For me, this summer is my "last summer" while being in school. You could say that it is sort of a "season of change". It feels like I am sitting in a time machine which is taking me with the speed of light to my next destination. Meanwhile I sit there looking at the world that is running without knowing how to influence any of it. There are so many questions about the future, uncertainties and dreams... Where am I going to be in five years? With whom? What will I be doing? Is it the thing I now think that I want to do or will it even surpass my imagination? Now I am hoping to be studying medicine in a city I wanted to be and not being different than I am now.

Plans... 
As I said I am hoping to get into a university in order to study medicine. I have to admit that the reason for this is Dr. House. I loved this series but it made me think whether working in a clinic is like that or not and as I expected, it was completely different. But I liked it, even more than the Dr. House imagination. So now I am craving for the possibility of learning how the human body works, how we can come back on our feet after being so weak. But not only the subject-specific skills seem to be interesting. 

The ethic problems which a medic is facing every day is difficult but worth thinking about. I just had a very interesting conversation with a doctor about the problem that fatally ill patient not have the chance of dying with dignity anymore. That made me think. I can’t understand why sometimes the medicine forces a patient to live without even knowing if his wish is dying in dignity or living for (mostly) more than one week with pain, supported by machines. Answering questions like these and knowing everything about the human body are the most important reasons why I wish to study medicine.
But like I said, I am HOPING of receiving the chance to study medicine and to contribute to solving these sort of problems. The tricky aspect in Germany is that the grades in high school influence if you get into this or that university - A criteria which is in my opinion very problematic. Even though my grades aren't bad, I think that more emphasize should be put on the personal characteristics of a future doctor. Nobody wants to be treated by a "professional robot" who knows only what makes the body of a patient feel better, but not the mind. Unfortunately not getting into a university isn’t the only fear I have. What happens if the picture I’ve painted is completely different to the reality? What should I do if this occurs? I have no answer to that.


Next steps... 
After my A-Level everything’s becomes different. The good thing about not getting directly into university is that I am going to have more time than I ever had. Even if a “Work and Travel” (which almost everyone around me is planning to do) experience seems to be attractive I want to be independent it’s going to be the first time I don’t have any duties. I want to be free and do something on my own!! I want to get to know Asia, maybe learning some Thai. I want to be spontaneous and I hope to get to know these cultures a bit more. As the saying says: collect memories not things! 



Now it sounds like I just want to get away from Europe which is definitely wrong. Right now I am planning a trip to Istanbul about which I am very excited. Turkey is so rich of cultural treasures I can’t wait to regard them all. The last thing I am hoping to do in this spare is visiting Paris for at least a month for improving my French. Paris was love a first sight. Our romance began on my 15th birthday which I celebrated there with my mother. Even though it was cold and foggy my heart was on flames. Never in my live I visited a city which was so beautiful and breathtaking. When I wandered through the “Marais” I felt enchanted. The hidden fountains, the incredibly beautiful small houses and the smile on the inhabitants’ faces was a rush of endorphins. Since than I visited my love affair every year. And every time I am there learn more things about it. Parc de Buttes-Chaumont is my hidden wonderland and Belleville my secret capital of Pâtisserie. 



About my future career wish...
The only thing I can do, is jumping out of this time machine, not letting the world running next to me and seizing the last year with my friends in school and the fantastic experiences I am going to make in my youth!!


°°° Thank you Henni! I hope to get a couple of postcards from your wild travel :) And that we eventually still get the chance to play some tennis every now and then :)

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8/30/2013

Dear Future I am ready: Leigh


Leigh - A new chapter, a new adventure

Education: Undergraduate Degree from University from Pittsburgh in Germany & Linguistics and Graduate Degree from University of South Carolina in German
Nationality: American
Age: 26
Previous international experience: Study abroad in Germany and lots of travel in Central and Eastern Europe. Favorite place to visit Lithuania
Hobbies: Running, writing and crochet
Challenge: Finding my first full time job in a larger city in the US or Germany in order to start a new and exciting chapter in my life!
Result: I found a job after 2 months of ups and downs in a job that reflects my personality better than I could have possibly imagined!

My passion and the ability to find a job with my skillset
            I was always the type of person who loved school; I loved learning and I loved sharing information with others. It was no surprise to those who knew me when I made the decision to enroll in a graduate program for German. My original plan was to go on to get my PHD in German literature and to spend the rest of my life teaching. To make a long story short: I never stopped loving school, but my experiences in graduate school made me realize that I had to see another side of life other than academia. With that thought in mind, I finished school with my Masters in German and decided to try the work force for a few years.
            Having been immersed in academia, all of my relevant work experience came from two teaching assistantships: one for teaching German in the United States, and the other for teaching English in Germany. My Masters degree, however, was not a teaching degree, so I knew that I would have to get creative while searching for a job. I wanted to work in publishing, but knew that I had to have extensive experience in smaller companies that provided publication services. With that in mind, I broadened my search to copy editing, professional writing, and even administrative services.



Let the job hunt start: Where to go?
            I grew up in a small country town outside of Pittsburgh, but have spent the last 3 years living in other places hundreds and thousands of miles away from Pittsburgh. My locational preferences were simple enough: I did not mind moving far away, as long as I lived in a bigger city with a relatively good standard of living and diverse cultural amenities. I had even hoped to move back to Europe, so I applied for jobs in Germany.

The first opportunity(ies) and the first frustration!
            The job hunt started out with high hopes. My first interview was for a style and design company in New York City. I went to Manhattan in my dress suit, interviewed for the job in German, and was turned down. I did not let that stop me and I applied for other jobs in Washington D.C., Boston, Baltimore, and Chicago. I discovered that the main problem with my job hunt was my current location. I was back in the Pittsburgh area, but the employers were skeptical that I would be willing to move so far away from Pittsburgh. I tried to add lines in my cover letter assuring potential employers that relocation was not an issue for me. No one seemed to believe it. I even landed a phone interview with a digital parts materialization company in Augsburg, Germany for an administrative assistant position. In spite of my willingness to move to Germany at my own expense, the Human Resources manager bluntly told me that out of the 7 candidates for the job, I was the only non-German applying, and that it would be difficult for them to justify hiring me and supporting a work visa. My advanced degree was another issue. After several weeks and no job, I applied for less-ambitious jobs that were closer to my residence. I was turned down for being overqualified.
            I was visibly frustrated at this point. I disliked the chore of looking through job postings, writing 4-6 cover letters per day, and readjusting my resume for readability. I finally started to apply for jobs through staffing agencies. Staffing agencies typically offer lower-level office jobs or call center positions. As an American with astronomical student loan payments to face, I knew I could not afford to be unemployed for much longer. My mother was worried and even urged me to go back to school to get a teaching degree. As much as I loved being a teacher, I wanted my chance to do something outside of academia, but feared failure.

Staffing agencies and "my travel agency"!
            I finally got my break two months after graduation from school. One of the staffing agencies called me the same day I submitted my resume to them. They arranged for me to interview with a specialized travel agency north of the city of Pittsburgh. I was skeptical about working at a travel agency since many jobs offered through them pay poorly and do not seem exciting. Still, I knew that a poor job was better than no job, so I put my dress suit back on and went to the travel agency.
            I came into the travel agency and found a bustling and warm environment. Everyone was friendly, well-spoken, and professional. I had done some research on the company before the interview so I would know what to expect, and was interested to find that this travel agency organizes trips around the world for sportsmen who like to hunt and fish in international locations. I had only fished a few times in my life, and was a bit nervous about my lack of expertise in hunting and fishing. This fact did not phase the Human Resources manager, and she had me speak with the co-owner of the company almost immediately since I was interviewing to be the co-owner’s assistant. The co-owner was very German in her attitude: direct, quick-thinking, organized, and clear about her expectations. I appreciated her demeanor and knew I would like working for her. I was told that they were hiring me to work on their account for fishing trips on the Ponoi River in Russia. Employees at the company are encouraged to travel to sites associated with their accounts and other accounts, take photos, and write articles on their travel experiences. I was excited about the photography and writing opportunities and realized that this was not going to be an average administrative assistant job. I walked out of the interview with greater enthusiasm about the position.



4 weeks of the new adventure! I love it!
            I was hired the following day. I have been at Frontiers International for four weeks at this point, and I love this job. I get to book clients’ trips to our fishing site, prepare their passports for visa processing, draw up reports on our hotel partners and charter flights, and even speak to our veteran clients on a personal level. The job is not linear, therefore it is never boring. The co-workers are friendly and helpful, and I still have not heard a single word of animosity or office gossip amongst the employees, something that is new and refreshing to me. I even found out last week that I will be going to Russia as soon as September of this year to visit the site associated with my account. I get to follow in the footsteps of a typical client and experience what they experience so I can do a better job at educating new clientele  about the site. I will even have the chance to learn fly-fishing.

I did it! Russia, here I come!
            My sudden departure from academia left me confused about what I wanted to do with my life. Looking back on my job hunt, I realize that the fact I was flexible and open-minded about what type of job would fit my qualifications helped me out. I also learned how to sell the skills that were not covered with my degrees: most of the jobs for which I interviewed were not German-speaking jobs, so I focused on my administrative experience and advanced writing skills. It was also good to be realistic; as much as I wanted to move to a very big city, the jobs can be scarce and there are always many more applicants for jobs in those places. Even though I currently work in an office in a rural area, I live in the city of Pittsburgh. I get the best of both worlds: exciting city lifestyle with access to gorgeous countryside. The most important thing I learned about finding satisfying work is the willingness to expand experiences in a way that can include my passion. I love foreign languages, but my job does not require me to use my foreign language skills. I do, however, get to participate in foreign travel, which is a lifestyle option that I had always hoped would be available to me. With the opportunity to work with long-term clients who make foreign travel a part of their lifestyle, I know that I have found work that supports my own desire to see the world and to learn of the experiences of other world-travelers.


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